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📚 ALONE MEMOIR Available now on Amazon! Get your copy of Alone Memoir today and experience a powerful story of faith, resilience, healing, and hope. 🎧 The audiobook is coming soon to Audible! Thank you for your support, and happy reading!

This book is to give a “reboot” to women and men who have dealt with death, loss of jobs, health concerns, and especially divorce.


This book is not to reintroduce the reader to pain, but to show the healing progress and journey to success after being in love and truly disappointed at  the end—divorced.

TRANSFORM YOUR LIFE TO TAKE CARE OF YOU

SELF KNOWLEDGE

  • Self Actualization- the realization of a person's full potential. 
  • Esteem, confidence, respect
  • Love/Belonging
  • Safety-employment, healthy home, 
  • Biological requirements for Human survival, e.g. air, food, drink, shelter, clothing, warmth, sex, sleep. If these needs are not satisfied the human body cannot function optimally. 


How to reference this article: McLeod, S. A. (2018, May 21). Maslow's hierarchy of needs. Retrieved from https://www.simplypsychology.org/maslow.html 

Song Empty Prayers 

Written/Produced: Kenneth Coby, Christopher Stewart, Mary J. Blige, Christyle Johnson




      


Faith and Marriage

Song-Goodness of God

Song-Goodness of God

Song-Goodness of God

Singing this song reminds me of the love God placed in my heart and my enduring belief in the sacred commitment of marriage.

Never Alone

Song-Goodness of God

Song-Goodness of God

This Christmas at Henry Ford Hospital in Clinton, Michigan (2025), my heart was simple—never leave anyone alone. Love belongs in every room, every hallway, every heart. Music became a reminder that even in a hospital, joy can still be felt, hope can still rise, and no one is forgotten. Celebrating love where it’s needed most is the true spirit of Christmas.” Dedicated to my sister Theresa in the red head scarf passed away April 4, 2026.

TRANSFORM YOUR LIFE

PRAYER AND MEDITATION

 The Many Benefits of Mindfulness, Prayer, and Meditation

  • Better sleep.
  • Calmer emotions.
  • Increased ability to focus.
  • Increased memory.
  • Greater self-awareness.
  • Increased resiliency.
  • Enhanced ability to safely experience feelings.
  • Reduced stress levels. 

 Prayer and Meditation Biblical meditation and prayer go hand in hand. A beautiful example of this is Psalm 143:5 and 7-8. While the psalmist is struggling deeply and expressing his pain to God, he is also meditating on what God has done in his life and praying to ask God to answer again like he has before!    

FORGIVENESS

Why Forgiveness is More About You Than Them?

Forgiveness allows us to move on; it removes us from feelings of anger and hate. 

https://welldoing.org/article/why-forgiveness-is-more-about-you-than-them#:~:text=Forgiveness%20allows%20us%20to%20move,critical%20to%20our%20emotional%20health.

HEALING

Brokenness To Healing


https://youtu.be/3ZO3PqFkLr0?si=IjOVrCSAXc9pUExp 

MY RELATIONSHIP WITH GOD

Having a relationship with God kept me encouraged. I'm very grateful that I never lost my friendship with Jesus Christ! 

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